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How The Educated Lover Began

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Updated: Dec 31, 2024




“We are lovers! We are dedicated to becoming the very best humans that we can be. We love to love, we love pleasure, we love new experiences, we love to teach, we love good people, and we love to talk sex!”



We are Josh and Jacki, and we are so excited that you found us! When it comes to relationships, communication, and sex, there is a lot to discuss. We have spent over a decade deconstructing our past histories and discovering the things that inspire us so that we can move on to a brighter, balanced future. As a touch therapist and registered nurse, we both have extensive backgrounds in bodies and the people who wear them. We aren't just some fly by night couple who decided to talk about sex. We live and work and have deep conversations with our patients to understand just how they tick. We continue to conquer our own history. The hurdles that we've experienced has made us one of the strongest couples on the planet.


If you knew our friends, they might describe us as inseparable. We genuinely like each other, and spend the majority of our time together. One of our absolute favorite quotes is from Pablo Neruda...


“I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; So I love you because I know no other way than this: where I does not exist, nor you, so close that your hand on my chest is my hand, so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.” Isn't that brilliant, romantic, and sexy? Gah!!!


We are in the process of raising 4 humans. It is our goal to make them the most well-rounded, confident, secure people of our next generation. We discuss with them regularly the concepts of sex, relationship, communication, empathy, desire, etc. We both wish so much that our parents would have had some of the conversations with us that we have with our kids.


That said, the narrow minded ideals of the past are changing. It is 2021, and the openness of society is growing. The concepts of sexuality and gender beyond cis and heterosexuality can be found historically throughout human evolution. Identities and preferences are being talked about openly more frequently. It's not perfect, but the change that we see is refreshing. We are a him/her couple but we connect with awesome people. We are inclusive. It matters not to us who you love and how you identify. What matters is that we bring more unconditional love to the world without angst!


We hope you follow along on this journey with us. We are so excited to continue the dialog of sex, pleasure, communication, and relationships so that we all can be Educated Lovers.

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